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The Practice of Being Human — In Plain Language
The same reflections, rewritten without metaphor, so their meaning can be felt as clearly as it was lived.
Ethicism: A Plain-Language Guide
This entry is a simplified summary of Ethicism, written in plain language. No metaphor, no poetry, no idiom; direct words for simplicity. Click the button below this paragraph to read the full post, to get a better and more full idea of what Ethicism is about. Core Idea Ethicism is a way of thinking about what it means to be good. It says that we must act with conscience, care, and responsibility, even when the world does not. It rejects ideas that say “nothing matters” or

The Autistic Lens
Oct 223 min read
Light After the Fire (Plain Version)
Every belief system, no matter how good it sounds, has to survive moments of doubt. You can have clear plans and good intentions, but eventually you’ll feel worn down. You’ll wonder if being kind or doing the right thing actually changes anything. That’s when despair appears—not during disaster, but after you’ve done your best and the world still feels the same. When your efforts seem invisible. When you care deeply and still watch people act cruelly or indifferent. It’s the

The Autistic Lens
Oct 223 min read
Cities Built of Kindness (Plain Version)
If cruelty can be organized, then compassion can be organized too. We already know how harm sustains itself: through laws, profits, and repetition. People have built entire systems around neglect. That means care can be structured the same way—it just hasn’t been made a priority. In The Hands That Mend, we talked about repair on a personal level: the small, quiet actions that rebuild trust and connection. But individual healing can only go so far when the systems we live in k

The Autistic Lens
Oct 214 min read
The Hands That Mend (Plain Version)
After every conflict, there’s a quiet period. It isn’t peaceful — just the silence that follows after anger, argument, or chaos. You’re left with the weight of everything that’s been said and done, wondering what to do next. In The Silence That Teaches, we learned how to pause — how to stop reacting and give space for reflection. But silence is only the first step. What comes next is harder: repair. Repair begins when things are calm again, but not yet healed. It’s when you f

The Autistic Lens
Oct 203 min read
The Silence That Teaches (Plain Version)
In A Language of Mercy, we learned that words can harm just as much as actions — and that cruelty often continues through both what we say and what we avoid saying. So once you’ve learned to speak with care and stop repeating harm, what comes next? Silence. Not silence out of fear, exhaustion, or avoidance — but the kind that allows space to think, to listen, and to process before responding. Modern life doesn’t value that kind of silence. People are expected to react instant

The Autistic Lens
Oct 203 min read
A Language of Mercy (Plain Version)
After pain, there’s usually a period of silence. Eventually, people start talking again. But not every kind of speech helps. Words can hurt. You learn this quickly — how a careless sentence, even when spoken gently, can reopen emotional wounds. Cruelty often survives through the way people talk. It doesn’t always show up as violence; sometimes it spreads through language that teaches others to think or feel less compassion. Once you start to heal personally, you notice how mu

The Autistic Lens
Oct 203 min read
The Garden Within (Plain Version)
Healing doesn’t mean the pain goes away or that what happened stops mattering. It means learning to live with it — to understand it, care for it, and make it part of who you are without letting it control you. Some days you’ll feel peaceful and hopeful. Other days you’ll feel the weight of what happened all over again. That’s normal. Healing isn’t about forgetting or pretending things are fine. It’s about slowly finding stability and kindness toward yourself even when things

The Autistic Lens
Oct 203 min read
We Almost Become Them (Plain Version)
It’s easy to hate. It’s easy to call your hate justice. It’s easy to see what others have destroyed and promise you’ll never be like them—while holding your own weapon in hand. Anger feels clean. It makes the world simple. It makes you feel strong and right. But even justified anger can corrupt you if you hold onto it too long. It begins to whisper that harm can heal, that punishment can fix what’s broken, that hurting someone back will make things fair. If you listen long en

The Autistic Lens
Oct 203 min read
Those We Call Monsters (Plain Version)
Someone did something terrible. You already know who comes to mind when you hear that. Maybe it’s one person, a group, or an ideology. You can recall what they did and how it made you feel — anger, disgust, a sense of injustice. You may have wanted them to feel what they caused: fear, guilt, loss. You wanted them to understand. Calling them monsters feels satisfying. It separates you from them. It creates order out of chaos and makes pain easier to hold. It feels righteous. Y

The Autistic Lens
Oct 203 min read
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