

Autism Services Are at Risk
They’re not curing autism. They’re trying to erase it. The Trump administration just took a dangerous step: they’ve officially endorsed...

The Autistic Lens
Sep 24, 20252 min read


The Myth of "The One"
We didn’t talk much that morning. Just sat there, watching the sun catch the road like it had a secret to tell. It’s funny—when I was younger, I used to believe that love meant finding “The One.” My soulmate. My twin flame. Chalk it up to Disney movies, maybe, or just being a kid who wanted to feel safe and chosen. Even in elementary school, that was the daydream running through my head. Not “what do you want to be when you grow up?” but “who’s going to sit beside me forever?

The Autistic Lens
Sep 23, 20253 min read


False Cures. Real Harm. What Parents Need to Know.
The Trump administration has now confirmed the worst of the rumors. In a sweeping set of announcements, they have officially endorsed the...

The Autistic Lens
Sep 22, 20253 min read


The Fool on the Hill
Some stories don’t end in triumph. Some don’t end in reconciliation. Some just end in silence, and the decision to stop carrying someone else’s weight. This is one of those stories. For fifteen years, I loved someone. Not passively, not distantly. Romantically, fiercely, foolishly at times. He was the first man I ever had feelings for, and I believed, again and again, that if I just held on long enough — if I carried both of us long enough — he’d find his way back to the boy

The Autistic Lens
Sep 18, 20252 min read


If You Still Remember
I still remember the boy who spoke in storyboards and starlight, who built worlds from wonder and dreamed of saving them. I don’t know if...

The Autistic Lens
Sep 18, 20252 min read


If The Hill Grows Quiet
I used to think we were walking the same road, two travelers carrying the same weight, seeing the same cracks in the world. It felt less...

The Autistic Lens
Sep 18, 20251 min read


If the Boy Never Returns
I thought love might be enough— twenty years of reaching, twenty years of believing that if anyone could break through the mirrors, it...

The Autistic Lens
Sep 18, 20252 min read


Your love is suspicious, for I do not deserve it.
Those words sit on my chest like a wet coat. They are not dramatic for me; they are accurate. Not because a stranger told me so once, but because I keep proving it to myself — in the small, honest places where I can’t hide. In the ways I’ve spoken (too loud, too blunt), in the ways I’ve lashed out when sleep and food and safety ran thin, in the ledger I keep of all the times I failed to be the person I promised I’d be. I am not trying to be poetic about it. I am trying to be

The Autistic Lens
Sep 18, 20256 min read


The Machine Keeps Turning
This isn’t a celebration post. It’s a grieving one. For everyone who’s lost in silence while the spotlight only shines on power. Not every death means the same thing. Some are tragedies. Some are signs of a deeper sickness in the system. Some are the inevitable result of a machine that thrives on cruelty. And while we’re all supposed to treat them as equal—mourn them the same, respond the same—the truth is: context matters. Power matters. And who gets heard in death says a lo

The Autistic Lens
Sep 17, 20254 min read


The Clock Strikes Thirteen
Not everything ends in a scream. Sometimes it starts in silence. With memories quietly swept away. With a story rewritten so often that the old one disintegrates beneath it. The past erased— And the erasure itself forgotten. Until the lie becomes truth. And then, one day, it shifts. Just slightly. A cold wind under a blue sky. You glance at the clock. It says thirteen. The world insists it’s always said thirteen. Then the scream begins. Not from a mouth. From a system. Online

The Autistic Lens
Sep 15, 20253 min read


What Comes After the Gunfire?
So, let’s talk about the news that broke today. I don’t know who will read this, or how it will be judged, or what eyes will pick it apart once it leaves my hands. That’s fine. I only know that I can’t carry it silently. I need to let it out, to trace the shape of my grief in words, even if I don’t have answers. Because this is not how it should have happened. There is no healing in this. No restoration. The people who were harmed by his words, by the violence he nurtured and

The Autistic Lens
Sep 10, 20255 min read


Nothing Is Wrong: From Storm to Serenity
Nothing Is Wrong is what I said to survive—but every note tells the truth: storm, fracture, survival, and finally, a breath of serenity....

The Autistic Lens
Sep 6, 20255 min read


Tylenol, Autism, and the Temptation of Easy Answers
Update (Sept. 22): Rumors are now circulating that Donald Trump will announce folinic acid as a “cure” for autism, while doubling down on...

The Autistic Lens
Sep 5, 20253 min read


Autism Is the Lens I See Through
For me, autism isn’t outside of my art—it’s the lens itself. The way I frame the world is the way I live in it. I used to think I was...

The Autistic Lens
Sep 3, 20256 min read


I Didn’t Get Here Alone
The smallest kindnesses—turning down the volume, reminding me to eat—kept me standing when I thought I’d fall. I don’t think any of us get through this life on our own. We like to imagine we’re self-sufficient, that we pull ourselves up and carry the weight alone. But sooner or later, life knocks every one of us flat. Illness, loss, betrayal, heartbreak, storms you didn’t see coming. Nobody is too strong to fall. And when you do, what gets you through isn’t politics or argume

The Autistic Lens
Sep 3, 20253 min read


Care Is What Holds Us Together
A fire in the hearth, a neighbor at the door—sometimes decency is that simple. I was raised to believe something simple: if somebody’s in...

The Autistic Lens
Sep 1, 20253 min read


How Do You Stay Human in an Ordinary World?
Cruelty is loud. Apathy is rampant. My rebellion is simple: keep caring, keep clear, keep human in an ordinary world.

The Autistic Lens
Aug 23, 20254 min read


How to Win Friends and Control Them
" When you learn to “ win ” people by mirroring their desires , deflecting conflict , and flattering their egos , what you ...

The Autistic Lens
Aug 17, 20254 min read


I Stepped Away. I Came Back Different
Between 2019 and early 2021, I was heavily involved in the autistic self-advocacy world. I helped lead campaigns. I built platforms. I...

The Autistic Lens
Aug 15, 20254 min read


Not a Cliff: The Slow Squeeze on NJ Group Homes
The Medicaid cuts are real. But the sky isn’t falling—at least not yet. Let’s talk about what’s happening, what isn’t, and why the fear...

The Autistic Lens
Aug 15, 20253 min read
